Sex is A spell, Use it wisely !

Hello Beautiful Souls, I hope you are doing well. 

It is Wednesday also affectionally known as “HUMP day” and I felt that this would make fore perfect day to share the channeled messages I received around Sex: the power that it yields, good and bad depending on the partner and the intention behind the connection. 

I touched on this topic previously in Twin Flame Tuesday, Messages from the Tarot of Sexual Magic. I am guided to dive in a little deeper today, as it is very important guidance. Growing up I am sure all of us were told that sex was only meant for married couples, or those who really loved each other and, truly this was an accurate statement but it goes much deeper than that. It should be said that sex should be for those in vibrational and spiritual alignment with each another, whose intentions are pure of heart. Sadly this is not the case at times due to various circumstances. 

This is true in the cases of narcissists, abusers, and the karmic partners: they use the power of sex to control their partners, to lull them into submission so as to not awaken to their true selves. Ever wonder where the term “fucked your brains out” came from, or “mind fucked”? These were two terms that I was shown recently that accounts for the way sex has been used to do harm. To be out of one’s mind after intercourse allows for interference, control and manipulation because you are lulled due to the hormone release that keeps you happy and connected to that partner. You are at your most vulnerable at this time, so if you are not with someone who is truly in love with you this could lead to problems. 

This is how karmic partners bank on their significant other not going anywhere; they use the power of sex to distract said person from what is right in front of them ie, the red flags such as psychological or emotional abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, infidelity, or even worse issues that may be present.  This manipulation keeps their partner from awakening to the true self, to paying attention to the natural intuition that is screaming out that something is wrong. 

These types of people “charm the pants off” of you literally. They pretend to be what you want and need, they will say all the right things and do all the right things until they “have you”. Then things start to slowly change, their words and actions don’t match up, they start to turn things around on you, they may disengage in intimacy until they are wanting it, making you feel vulnerable, confused, and doubting yourself. This is how they break your spirit down. Sex to them is not about intimacy and bonding; it’s about keeping you subdued, and doing the things they want you to do. 

Another specific message I was getting to share was around the “love languages”. Yes we all want to have great relationships and we all deserve that, so understanding how we accept love is a huge key but in the wrong hands it is dangerous. So it’s important to be very discerning with whom you share key information, as well as your life experiences and traumas. Infiltration, via  key information is how an abuser and narcissist works to understand and get to you. 

They will use everything they have learned about you to keep you stuck and with them, making you feel like they love you but in reality they are just taking from you in one way or another. 

These types of individuals will know when you are starting to awaken to their games, lies, deceit and recognizing the red flags and this is when they will show more interest in you, via sweet talking, shower you with affection and use your love languages to get you back into bed, and bring you back under their spell. 

Have you noticed or paid attention to how you felt after being intimate with the wrong person that you just didn’t feel right, you are kind of left feeling empty, unwell, sad, etc? These are little indications that something is amiss, and this is the guidance I was given to share here with you. You are asked to trust this, pay attention to how you are feeling, after being in close proximity with someone who is not in alignment with your true spirit.

Are you noticing that the desire to be with maybe your current partner is just not there anymore, you revolt at the very thought them touching you, hugging you never mind kissing and being intimate with? This is our souls’ and bodies’ way of telling us that we are coming to the end of the line. 

These feelings usually come up as you start to do your inner healing, understanding the wounds that you have carried that allowed you to attract this person into your space, this is more true around karmic or what I was told to call them catalyst partners, they are there to help further awaken you on your spiritual journey, to trigger you to learn more about yourself, your wants, needs, desires. They are there to help you to evaluate and work through the challenges, struggles and wounds that we carry with us.

We too are karmic partners for our current partners; we to can be toxic in many ways, but it’s what we do with that knowledge that makes the difference.

We are all but mirrors for one another reflecting back what we need to heal and work through and once we do, we start to vibrate higher, and we then are not able to tolerate anything less than our equal vibration. 

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Sex with your counterpart (twin flame) is a very powerful magic and is one of the very reasons that the twin flames have been under attack and kept apart. When the two come into union they are stronger, mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally. With the dark energy at play at this time, it’s the last thing that the dark energy would want to have happen. When the twin flames come into union they will be able to help so many more people to awaken, heal and raise to their purpose. 

Sex with someone at least more vibrationally and spiritually aligned can be very healing on many levels, there is proof that sex can help boost hemoglobin levels (the portion in red blood cells, which carry oxygen), boost your immune system, boost your mental health, mood, and so much more. 

It’s vital for us to take care of our sexual health, knowing the healing power that it holds.

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I am wishing you all a wonderful rest of the week. If you have any comments or questions please comment below. If you would like to book a personal reading you can email me at angelblessings.11.22@gmail.com

Friday Nights Distance Healing

Hello Beautiful Souls,

I hope you are doing well and having a wonderful weekend so far. I am popping in with a quick messages and offer. On Friday night while I was doing distance healing for some clients, I was guided that I needed to start offering some free sessions via Facebook / Instagram and my website. 

This will be an ongoing opportunity for healing, right now for all of September. I will be doing it weekly and then move to do it twice a month, depending on the guidance I  receive. 

It’s our calling as light-workers, star seeds, healers, readers, to help where we can and I feel that as a whole we are all in need of some energetic and vibrational up lifting.

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Reiki goes where it’s needed to and is able to work on multiple levels of ones health, starting with clearing and balancing chakra, it can help to heal past, present, future issues, difficult situations, ailments just to name a few things. 

I will be asking for those interested to sign up with their Names, Country or City so I can put the intention to those individuals during the healing.

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You may or may not feel, heat, tingles, chills, pressure just to name a few sensations. You may also experience drowsiness, flu-like symptoms as the energy breaks through any blockages, vivid dreams, and emotional release. Know that this is perfectly normal. Drink plenty of water, rest and journal anything that may come up for you .

You may also connect with me if you have further questions, comments or concerns. If you are interested in the Friday Healings, please complete the form below and follow the blog for updates and offers. 

Sending healing light love and blessings to you all!

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Twin Flame Tuesday, Messages from the Tarot of Sexual Magic.

Hello beautiful Souls, Happy Tarot Tuesday, I apologize for the delays with posts and blogs during this intense energy. I have literally been in hibernation mode which I feel many can relate to. It is all about being authentic on all levels and I just was not in a place where I felt I could share.

I took time to cleanse my energy through reiki, sea salt baths with meditation, talking and journalling my feelings, and just lying down and resting when I needed to, which was good because sleep as of late has been very hard to come by. 

Today I am here with the first part of a two day post for you beautiful souls, so please make sure to check back tomorrow for the second portion. 

The cards today came from the Tarot of sexual magic, as I feel there is so much that needs to come through around this energy and what the masculines (those that resonate with this charge) are going through. 

Card one is the Devil card, and the themes here are sexual frustrations, deception around sex and how it was used to control, as well as the need for deep healing around any sexual trauma and abuse that one or both of the counterparts may have experienced in this lifetime. 

As previously stated this indicates a lot of frustration sexually, there is no intimacy for a lot of the twin flames. Some of this is by choice and some of this is forced by circumstance. I feel for the masculine energy as this is more forced than anything since the karmic shows no interest in him physically, which is hard on the masculine’s ego. They question and doubt themselves, not realizing that this is a form of healing in and of itself. To refrain from sexual acts with someone who is no longer of the same vibration is a huge step forward, it’s part of the process to cleanse and clear their bodies of the energies of others. 

As for the feminines on the journey they have decided that they are no longer able to lower their vibrations, lower their standards and force themselves into something that just does not resonate any longer. The need to be aroused not just on the physical level but on the emotional, mental and spiritual level has taken priority. They can no longer indulge in intimate acts with their karmic partner, they feel as if these individuals are sucking the life force right out of them and truly feel that the only ones they really want to be in this vulnerable position with is their divine counterpart. 

They have taken to Spiritual celibacy, which is really about healing the inner wounds around self worth, self respect, self love and once more it’s about clearing out all of the energetic residue from previous partners including the karmic, bringing the vessel back to the highest vibration. This has led to the break down of the karmic relationships. Once the intimacy goes, there is a realization that there wasn’t much there to begin with. This is how sex was used to confuse the twin flames and to keep them in karmic situations longer than necessary because they have mistaken carnal lust and desire for love. 

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The message I am hearing is “Sex is like a spell” so choose wisely before allowing that penetration into your soul, because it’s not just a physical act, it’s also a deep spiritual one.

Sex for some was also a coping mechanism, moving from one partner to another, numbing themselves to any emotional connection, but this is not sustainable and those individuals are recognizing this pattern in themselves and learning to process and clear this. It’s time. We are all being asked to level up and heal our addictions and wounds that we have buried deep down for far too long. 

It’s time for the true twin flames to step forward and serve humanity, as this is the true purpose of the connection. Their union is to help raise the vibration of the planet and teach about unconditional love. 

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The guidance I am also getting along with multiple conversations with my dear friend Divine Symmetry 1-8-4-7 surrounds the power of the orgasam. Yes folks, self pleasure is important and key at this time. One major way for the twin flames to work together during separation is to use intentions before they embark on self pleasure, creating intentions to help manifest the twin flame collective coming together (no pun intended) to awaken to the true purpose of the connection and not just for our selves but for the whole. 

It’s not all about romance and flowers it’s about our truest divine purpose as a whole, why did we incarnate at this time? We came here TO HELP Humanity fight the darkness that has been prevalent for hundreds, if not thousands of years. And as I type this message I keep hearing “RISE UP, RISE UP, RISE UP” .

Card two is the 8 of pentacles in reverse. In my opinion, this is validation for the messages above, that is, the complete withdrawal of the divine counterparts from their karmic partners and the lack of physical and emotional intimacy. Both parties are feeling completely alone, unloved and undervalued. 

The feminines are doing it for themselves at this time, they are no longer opening up the sacred space or heart for anything less than true love. This is been the divine feminines’ reality for a long while, years in fact, even if they are still in karmic situations, there has been no physical contact with those individuals and nor will there be even when the karmic partners try their hardest to entice the feminines. 

Card three is the Emperor. He sits on his throne and contemplates his life choices, his circumstance, his feelings, his desires. I feel this is a good indication that the masculines are awakening to this connection, to their higher selves, understanding and questioning everything around them. Are they happy in their situations? Why aren’t they happy even with all the material wealth? What is missing? Why do they keep thinking of this other person?

I am guided to add in my Divine Symmetry -18-4-7 video as I feel it will also resonate with you beautiful souls at this time. https://youtu.be/EGhQm7bQlho

I hope this post found you well and that it resonated with some of you. I will be back tomorrow with another post around the twin flame separation, so stay tuned.

If you would like to book a personal reading with me you can contact me through this site or email me at angelblessings.11.22@gmail.com

Twin flame Journey: The purpose of Separation

Hello beautiful souls,

I hope you are all doing well, or as well as can be considering all that’s going on right now globally. We are all being pushed to our brink, to elevate, to stand up and speak up. 

Early this morning I had a song sync come through, it was Journey’s “Open arms” which played off a conversation I had with Divine Symmetry 1-8-4-7 last night regarding the masculine energy.  It made me reflect on the true meaning of separation and I realized that the journey isn’t for the faint of heart. 

The song lyrics are below and I feel they will resonate and are a message for some if not all of us. This song speaks volumes about the ebbs and flows of the twin flame journey, the truest desire to rekindle the love and the physical bond. I do feel that the masculines are coming to a precipice in their journey where they are really needing to make a choice now, as are we all. This song is really letting us know how some of the masculines are feeling. They do really want to be with their feminines. I feel there are a lot of sleepless nights, a lot of contemplation as portrayed by The Emperor card from yesterdays reading . It’s only a matter of time now, as they learn to take back their power and their voice. Hold space for your counterpart dear ones even when you are tested to your limits and triggered by their behaviour or lack of communication. It’s all cumulative to bigger things, spiritual grown, healing of cycles. 

Open Arms

Lying beside you
Her in the dark
Feeling your heartbeat with mine
Softly you whisper
You’re so sincere
How could our love be so blind
We sailed on together
We drifted apart
And here you are
By my side

So now I come to you
With open arms
Nothing to hide
Believe what I say
So here I am
With open arms
Hoping you’ll see
What your love means to me
Open arms

Living without you
Living alone
This empty house seems so cold
Wanting to hold you
Wanting you near
How much I wanted you home

But now that you’ve come back
Turned night into day
I need you to stay

So now I come to you
With open arms
Nothing to hide
Believe what I say
So here I am
With open arms
Hoping you’ll see
What your love means to me
Open arms

It is a divine path that triggers you, pushes you past your comfort zone. It’s about healing those deep-seated wounds that are not only from this lifetime but multiple lifetimes before. 

This is the time to pay attention to those recurring themes in your life, people, places, emotions that trigger a fiery response. Are you having relationship troubles? Are you noticing that those around you don’t support you? Do they gaslight you, manipulate you, disrespect you? What are you needing to learn through this? Are you needing to set firmer borders, work on self love, self esteem, or heal abandonment wounds?

Any physical pain that is also being experienced in areas of your body may be  stored up emotions and energy blocks. Things we have pushed down for years and years are now being brought to the surface for processing and releasing. 

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The meeting of our twin is what awakens us to our divine gifts and abilities although they are already there, we just become more aware of them after we are in communication or relationships with our divine. It’s the connection the masculine and feminine have that kickstarts the ascension process and our divine purpose on this plane. All of this is about looking at ourselves honestly, understanding ourselves our pattens, our needs and desires and even our behaviours so that we can be healthy whole persons, and our counterparts can do the same. 

The twin flame journey defies all rational thought, defies reason and normal constructs about relationships. It’s not to say that it’s a perfect connection, it’s not, it can be toxic at times but this is what encourages us learn and grow and stand in our power and discover our own sense self worth and love. 

The separation portion of this journey is extremely painful for most, especially when you are not in communication in any way shape or form with your counterpart. It’s all needed. Without the separation, you would not find yourself, you would not have experiences that would help you find the compassion, the knowingness and understanding for your counterpart, or yourself. 

We may try to deny the connection but it only lasts a short time until you are reminded in some way of that person, be it through your dream space, signs and synchronicities musical messages as per the song above, or memories. This is especially true for those that had previously had relationships with their counterpart and then separated. 

Remember that your soul knows who is for you even if you consciously do not. We must remember that we meet people for a specific reason, to learn a specific lesson to allow our soul to grow and ascend further. Those said experiences may be the hardest you ever go through but you will come out stronger than you ever thought possible and very well may end up helping you to help others who have gone or going through the same thing. 

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There will be many cycles of separation, some longer then others, but know that its all to help us heal and pull back the layers of ourselves, ie like the onion, we need to shed away those layers of bit up traumas, fears, anxiety, scares that we carry with us for various reason. 

This topic is very deep and I feel guided to leave this a bit open ended as I will be coming back to It over the course of the month(s)

Thank you for taking the time to read my blog, I really appreciate you. I truly hope that it finds you well and brings some comfort or understanding.

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I wish you all many blessings for the week a head.