Twin flame Journey: The purpose of Separation

Hello beautiful souls,

I hope you are all doing well, or as well as can be considering all that’s going on right now globally. We are all being pushed to our brink, to elevate, to stand up and speak up. 

Early this morning I had a song sync come through, it was Journey’s “Open arms” which played off a conversation I had with Divine Symmetry 1-8-4-7 last night regarding the masculine energy.  It made me reflect on the true meaning of separation and I realized that the journey isn’t for the faint of heart. 

The song lyrics are below and I feel they will resonate and are a message for some if not all of us. This song speaks volumes about the ebbs and flows of the twin flame journey, the truest desire to rekindle the love and the physical bond. I do feel that the masculines are coming to a precipice in their journey where they are really needing to make a choice now, as are we all. This song is really letting us know how some of the masculines are feeling. They do really want to be with their feminines. I feel there are a lot of sleepless nights, a lot of contemplation as portrayed by The Emperor card from yesterdays reading . It’s only a matter of time now, as they learn to take back their power and their voice. Hold space for your counterpart dear ones even when you are tested to your limits and triggered by their behaviour or lack of communication. It’s all cumulative to bigger things, spiritual grown, healing of cycles. 

Open Arms

Lying beside you
Her in the dark
Feeling your heartbeat with mine
Softly you whisper
You’re so sincere
How could our love be so blind
We sailed on together
We drifted apart
And here you are
By my side

So now I come to you
With open arms
Nothing to hide
Believe what I say
So here I am
With open arms
Hoping you’ll see
What your love means to me
Open arms

Living without you
Living alone
This empty house seems so cold
Wanting to hold you
Wanting you near
How much I wanted you home

But now that you’ve come back
Turned night into day
I need you to stay

So now I come to you
With open arms
Nothing to hide
Believe what I say
So here I am
With open arms
Hoping you’ll see
What your love means to me
Open arms

It is a divine path that triggers you, pushes you past your comfort zone. It’s about healing those deep-seated wounds that are not only from this lifetime but multiple lifetimes before. 

This is the time to pay attention to those recurring themes in your life, people, places, emotions that trigger a fiery response. Are you having relationship troubles? Are you noticing that those around you don’t support you? Do they gaslight you, manipulate you, disrespect you? What are you needing to learn through this? Are you needing to set firmer borders, work on self love, self esteem, or heal abandonment wounds?

Any physical pain that is also being experienced in areas of your body may be  stored up emotions and energy blocks. Things we have pushed down for years and years are now being brought to the surface for processing and releasing. 

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The meeting of our twin is what awakens us to our divine gifts and abilities although they are already there, we just become more aware of them after we are in communication or relationships with our divine. It’s the connection the masculine and feminine have that kickstarts the ascension process and our divine purpose on this plane. All of this is about looking at ourselves honestly, understanding ourselves our pattens, our needs and desires and even our behaviours so that we can be healthy whole persons, and our counterparts can do the same. 

The twin flame journey defies all rational thought, defies reason and normal constructs about relationships. It’s not to say that it’s a perfect connection, it’s not, it can be toxic at times but this is what encourages us learn and grow and stand in our power and discover our own sense self worth and love. 

The separation portion of this journey is extremely painful for most, especially when you are not in communication in any way shape or form with your counterpart. It’s all needed. Without the separation, you would not find yourself, you would not have experiences that would help you find the compassion, the knowingness and understanding for your counterpart, or yourself. 

We may try to deny the connection but it only lasts a short time until you are reminded in some way of that person, be it through your dream space, signs and synchronicities musical messages as per the song above, or memories. This is especially true for those that had previously had relationships with their counterpart and then separated. 

Remember that your soul knows who is for you even if you consciously do not. We must remember that we meet people for a specific reason, to learn a specific lesson to allow our soul to grow and ascend further. Those said experiences may be the hardest you ever go through but you will come out stronger than you ever thought possible and very well may end up helping you to help others who have gone or going through the same thing. 


There will be many cycles of separation, some longer then others, but know that its all to help us heal and pull back the layers of ourselves, ie like the onion, we need to shed away those layers of bit up traumas, fears, anxiety, scares that we carry with us for various reason. 

This topic is very deep and I feel guided to leave this a bit open ended as I will be coming back to It over the course of the month(s)

Thank you for taking the time to read my blog, I really appreciate you. I truly hope that it finds you well and brings some comfort or understanding.

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I wish you all many blessings for the week a head.

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