Hello Beautiful Souls,
I apologize for the lack of content over the last month, but I like to keep it real and authentic with you all and only post when I feel truly guided. I like many others had been guided to rest, to balance my energy, and do my own shadow work; which by the way is an ongoing process, it takes time and is not at all easy but it is a must after all. I too am always learning more about myself and where I am needing to say ENOUGH is Enough.
I have taken the last month to evaluate my connections, how and where I put my energy and I am learning to set better and healthier boundaries. As someone that has experienced so much trauma in my life, learning this has taken a lot of time. But that is what each and every experience is about, learning from it, gaining wisdom, clarity meaning, and purpose through the chaos.
As I was talking to Divine Symmetry 1-8-4-7 briefly this morning inspiration hit and I was guided to write this post around the twin flame connection and how many are feeling fed up with the dynamic at this time.
Those who are on the twin flame journey and have a bit of communication with their counterpart are starting to have enough with a one-sided connection. One-sidedness can take many forms: Emotional distance, time, energy, or love. This is all part of the process, it’s about self-love, self-worth, and self-esteem. The one who is continuously holding space for the other with little to no reciprocity is starting to get tired, and fed up. It is ok to still love the person and say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
As we know this journey is more about ourselves and becoming who were are supposed to be, healing old wounds, raising our vibration, and triggering the counterpart to do so as well. Now is the time to set healthy boundaries. So many on this journey of the twin flame connection are learning to stand up and say NO more of us just being at their beck and call, no more overgiving of our time, energy, love, and support
It’s about us not being afraid to stand up and say what we feel, to call out the bad behaviour, because after all we are here to help those counterparts heal as well and that can only be done if we are honest and reflect back to them what needs to be cleared.
This is all part of the journey, remember the separation that each of the twin flames goes through at various stages is for their own healing and growth and this is part of it.
What is your threshold? When do you say “ENOUGH”? How do you handle it? So many of us don’t want to say anything because we are scared that it will cause the end of the connection but remember beautiful souls the connection itself can never be broken, but this specific cycle of the connection may be finished and communication may need to end for a while as to trigger deeper healing, clearing and raising of vibrations.
Take this time to honour your feelings, allow yourself to do what you need to do to feel ok. Each cycle will have its own grieving process, allow that. I plan to touch more on this in future blogs.
Many Blessings Beautiful souls, Feel free to reach out if you would like a personal reading.